Mutualunderstandingiscritaltothesucsessofmarriage.Asasayinggoes:"Marriageisthegraveforlove.'Toacertainextent,ithassomepointinit,becauseloveinmostcaseisromanticandtheloveronlyseethebrightsideofhisorhercounterpart,butthemarriageinvovlesmorevulgarthings.Duringthedailylife,younotonlydiscoverhisorherbrightside,youmayalsobereluctanttofindsometimesheorsheoffensivetoyou.Therefore,mutualunderstandingisprettyimportanttomaintainagoodmarriage.Withoutit,thecoupleswillonlycomplaineachotherwhenconfrontedwithconflictsbetweenthem.Astimegoesbyandthetentionexists,moreoftenthannot,themarriagewilleventuallyfallcollapsed.Sothemostandforemostthingthatacoupleshouldkeepinmindisthatthepreciouslovethatbindthemtogether.Ifnotforthat,howcouldtheygettoknowandfallinwitheachother?

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