英语阅读!求下面两道题的详解及在上文的什么地方有体现BWhyaresomanypeoplesoafraidoffailure?Quitesimplebecausenoonetellsushowtofailsothatfailurebecomesanexperiencethatwillleadtogrowth.Weforgetthatf

　　英语阅读!求下面两道题的详解及在上文的什么地方有体现

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　　Whyaresomanypeoplesoafraidoffailure?Quitesimplebecausenoonetellsushowtofailsothatfailurebecomesanexperiencethatwillleadtogrowth.Weforgetthatfailureispartofthehumanconditionandthateverypersonhastherighttofail.

　　Mostparentsworkhardateitherpreventingfailureorprotectingtheirchildrenfromtheknowledgethattheyhavefailed.Onewayistolowerstandards.Amotherdescribesherchild’shastilymadetableas“Perfect!”eventhoughitdoesn’tstandstill.Anotherwayistoshift(转移)blame.IfJohnfailsscience,histeacherisunfairorstupid.

　　Thetroublewithfailurepreventionisthattheyleaveachildunequippedforlifeintherealworld.Theyoungneedtolearnthatnoonecanbebestateverything,noonecanwinallthetimeandthatit’spossibletoenjoyagameevenwhenyoudon’twin.Achildwho’snotinvitedtoabirthdayparty,whodoesn’tmakethehonourrollonthebaseballteam,feelsterrible,ofcourse.Butparentsshouldnotofferaquickcomfort,prizeorsay“Itdoesn’tmatter.”becauseitdoes.Theyoungshouldbeallowedtoexperiencedisappointmentandbehelpedtomasterit.

　　Failureisneverpleasurable.Ithurtsgrownupsandchildrenalike.Butitcanmakeapositivecontributiontoyourlifeonceyoulearntouseit.Steponeistoask“Whydiditfail?Don’tblamesomeoneelse.Askyourselfwhatyoudidwrong,howyoucanimprove.Ifsomeoneelsecanhelp,don’tbeshyaboutinquiring.Success,whichencouragesrepetitionofoldbehaviour,isnotnearlyasgoodateacherasfailure.Youcanlearnfromabadpartyhowtogiveagoodone,fromanill-chosenfirsthousewhattolookforinasecond.Evenafailurethatseemsdefinitivecancausefreshthinking,achangeofdirection.Aftertwelveyearsofstudyingballet,afriendofmineappliedforaprofessionalcompany.Sheasked.Thatballetmastershookhishead.“Youwillneverbeadancer,”hesaid,”youhaven’tthebodyforit.”

　　Insuchcases,thewaytousefailureistotakestockbravelyasking“WhathaveIleft?WhatelsecanIdo?”Myfriendputawayhershoesandmovedintodancetreatmentcenter,afieldwhereshe’sbothableanduseful.Failurefreesonetotakerisksbecausethere’slesstolose.Oftenthereisrecoveryofenergy—awaytofindnewp