Manystudentsmayfeel（61）___（stress）becauseoftheirparents．Mostparentshavegoodintentions，（62）___someofthemaren'tveryhelpfulwiththeproblemstheirsonsanddaughtershavein（63）___（adjust）tocollege，andafew

　　Many students may feel（61）___（stress） because of their parents．Most parents have good intentions，（62）___ some of them aren't very helpful with the problems their sons and daughters have in（63）___（adjust） to college，and a few of them seem to go out of their way to add to their children's difficulties．

　　For one thing，parents are often not aware（64）___ the kinds of problems their children face．They don't realize that the（65）___（compete） is stronger，that the required standards of work are（66）___（high），and that their children may not be prepared for（67）___change．They may be upset by their children's poor grades．At their kindest，they may（68）___（gentle） ask why John or Mary isn't doing better，whether he or she is trying as hard as he or she should，and so on．At their worst，they may threaten（69）___ （take） their children out of college or cut off living expenses．

　　Sometimes parents think it right and natural that they determine（70）___their children do with their lives．They forget that everyone is different and that each person must develop in his or her own way．