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Well,actually,everyonewantstoachievesuccessasweallhaveourowndreams.However,successinlifecanbeachievedindifferentways.Manymagazinesandtelevisionprogrammesshowusthatsuccesscanbemeasuredintermsofmoney,orhavingasuccessfuljob.Inmyopinion,whateveryoudo,therearesomefactorsweshouldconsiderofitifyouwanttobesuccessful.Forinstance,weshouldgrasptheopportunity,andweshouldbeselfconfident,then,weneedtoworkefficiently.Butfailureiswhatusuallyhappensaroundus.SoIthinkweneedtoanalyseindetailhowtoachievesuccess,becausesuccessisonepartofourlifeplan,forexample,weneedtofindanidealandsuitablejob.Ormaybe,itwillbeoneofthevaluableexperiencesthatwecanfindourdeficiencysothatwecanimproveourselves.Whenwegetthegoalintheend,wewillbesatisfiedwiththefinalresult.
Somepeoplesaythekeytosuccessisgoodluck,whileothersclaimitishardworkthatreallycounts.Itisnodoubtthatsuccessfulpeopledotaketheadvantageofopportunities.Butiftheydon’tworkhard,theycanonlywaittoseeopportunitiespassingby.Soinmyopinion,opportunity,devotionandperseverancearethreefundamentalfactorsinsuccess.
Opportunityisthefirstkeytosuccess,astheopportunitiesarerareandonlytheluckiestpersonscanobtainthem.However,wehavetosaythatvariouskindsofopportunitiesarearoundusallthetime.But,wemusttryourbesttofindthemandmakefulluseofthem.
Diligence,itmeanstoworkwithoutanywasteoftime.Ifwewastetime,ourfuturelifewillbeafailure.Ifwearediligentnow,wemightnotbeabletogetsuccessfulinthefuture.
Perseveranceisalsoindispensableforsuccess,withoutwhichwecanhardlyovercomethedifficultiesandwillhavenothingaccomplished.
Inconclusion,successisnotsomethingeasytoachieve,anditwillbebasedonopportunity,devotionandperseverance.Justastheoldsayinggoes,‘wherethereisawill,thereisaway.’
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Tosomepeople,friendshipmeans“nobodyisincharge.”Friendshipisstrictlyegalitarian.Neitherpartnerexercisesauthorityovertheother.
Ifthisiswhatyoumeanby“friendship,”thenthequestionseemstobeabouttheeffectsofpermissive(orevenneglectful)parenting.
Researchsuggeststhatkidsdobetterwhentheirparentsshowaffectionandenforceage-appropriatelimitsontheirchildren’sbehavior
Considertheparentwhoenforceslimitsandavoidsworryingherkidswithdetailedaccountsofheradultpersonalproblems.
Sheisfirstandforemostamothertoherkids.
Butshemightalsoseeherselfasafriendbecausesheandherkidsshareasenseofmutualloyalty,trust,andrespect.
Inaddition...
•Shetreatsherchildrenasindividualswithmindsoftheirown.
•Shetalkswithherkidsabouttheirthoughts,hopes,ideas,andfeelings.
•Shesharesbitsofherown“mentallife”withthem--notthebitslikelytodistresskids,butbitsthathelpkidsseetheirparentsashumanbeings(Example:“I’mdisappointed.IwishwecouldgotoDisneyland,too,butwecan’taffordit.”)
Thisnotionoffriendshipseemsconsistentwiththeliteratureonsecureattachments,“mind-mindedparenting,”inductivedi