1)Whetheryouareclimbingthecareerladderorjustendeavoringtogetthroughcollegiatecourses,Ibetyoudesiretobelikableinsociallife.2)Forexample,apoliticianiseagertobecomethefocusofthepublicworshipwhereasastudentlongstobethecenterofothers’admiration.3)Toachievethis,however,youneedtodevelopthequalitiesthatthelikablepeoplesharewithoneanother.

　　4)Firstofall,youneedtomakeastrongconnectiontoyour“bestself”.5)Thestrongerconnectionyouhavetoyourbestselfnow,thegreaterattractionyouwillholdtoothers.6)Secondly,youneedtofindinyourselfasmuchgraceandvirtueincommonwithothersaspossible.7)Suchcommongroundcanofferyoumorechancestoshareyourexpertiseandtalentswithothers,thusleavingmoreofyourmarkonthem.8)Thirdly,youneedtobreedoptimism.9)Thequalityofbeingoptimisticenablesyoutoseekopportunityforthosestuckinstraits.

　　10)Last,certainlynottheleast,youneedtocultivatetheabilitytomakeotherscomfortable.11)Underlyingthisabilityisthesenseofhumorthatfillsupothers’worldwithhappiness.12)Tosumup,thequalitiesofbeingatyourbest,sharingcommongroundwithothers,beingoptimistic,andkeepingotherscomfortable,asmentionedabove,willplaceyouonthewaytobeingthekindofpersonothersenjoybeingaround