Aninvestigationindicatesthatnolessthan70%oftheunemployedyoungpeoplenowliveofftheirparents'income.Thisisthenewwaytheyoungstersarelivingtheirlives--notineducation,employment,ortraining.

　　Whataccountsforthiswidespreadphenomenon?Foronething,mostparentsarewillingtosacrificethemselvesbecauseofthedeeplovefortheirchildren.Unfortunatelytheyneglecttofostertheiroffspring'sindependencesothattheirchildrenareaccustomedtolivingunderthesponsorshipoftheirparents.Inaddition,withtheemploymentsituationbecomingincreasinglysevertheyoungsterscanhardlygetwell-paidjobs.

　　Admittedly,thisproblem,whichresultsfromchangingtimes,shouldbecopedwithimmediatelyandappropriately.Aboveall,teenagersmustrealizethatlivingoffparentsaftergraduationisawayoflifewhichtheyoughttobeashamedof.Infact,itismoretotheirdisadvantageinthelongrun.Furthermore,asocietyshouldnotonlycreatanexcellentatmosphereof"respectinglabor",butalsoestablishgoodemploymentchannelsforgraduates.

　　啃老族，已经不是一个新鲜的词汇，但是啃老的现象却愈演愈烈，欲罢不能。他们并非找不到工作，而是主动放弃了就业的机会，赋闲在家，不仅衣食住行全靠父母，而且花销往往不菲。“啃老族”年龄都在23-30岁之间，并有谋生能力，却仍未“断奶”，得靠父母供养。社会学家称之为“新失业群体”。

　　据有关专家统计，在城市里，有30％的年轻人靠“啃老”过活，65％的家庭存在“啃老”问题。“啃老族”很可能成为影响未来家庭生活的“第一杀手”。

　　据中国媒体调查，目前“啃老族”主要有以下六类人：

　　一是大学毕业生，因就业挑剔而找不到满意的工作，约占20％；

　　二是以工作太累太紧张、不适应为由，自动离岗离职的，他们觉得在家里很舒服。占10％左右；

　　三是“创业幻想型”青年，他们有强烈的创业愿望，却没有目标，缺乏真才实学，总是不成功，而又不愿“寄人篱下”当个打工者。占20％；

　　四是频繁跳槽，最后找不到工作，靠父母养活着。占10％；

　　五是下岗的年轻人，他们习惯于用过去轻松的工作与如今紧张繁忙的工作相比，越比越不如意，干脆就离职，约占10％；

　　六是文化低、技能差，只能在中低端劳动力市场上找苦脏累工作，因怕苦怕累索性呆在家中，占30％。

　　我这里想要问的是，对待这样一个年轻人的群体，我们该采取什么态度？当然不可能是漠视，那帮助由该怎么帮呢。

　　个人觉得百善孝为先，为人子女，我们应该恪守自己的传统美德。反对啃老，提倡孝道！

　　生活如同一场风雨，只有当你经过它的洗礼磨砺，才能发现雨后彩虹是如此美丽。

　　Theboomerangchild,itisnotafreshvocabulary,butonthephenomenonisincreasinglyfierce,stop.Theyarenotfindajob,butgiveupthechancesofemployment,sitatnotonlythebasicnecessitieswholedependparents,andcostsoftendoesnotpoor."Theparasitical"overage23-30yearsoldbetween,andabilitytoearnaliving,butstillnot"weaning",mustdependonparentssupport.Sociologistscallof"newunemployedcommunity".

　　Accordingtoconcerninganexpertstatistics,inthecity,has30％ofyoungpeopledependonthe"live,65％familyexistsonthe"problems."Theparasitical"probablybecomeaffectfuturefamilylifeof"firstkiller".

　　AccordingtoChinesepressinvestigation,atpresent"theparasitical"basicallyhavethefollowingsixcategoriesofpeople:

　　Oneistheuniversitygraduates,foremploymentcaptiousandfindsatisfyingwork,accountingforapproximately20％,

　　Thesecondisthejobistootiredtoonervous,doesnotadaptthegrounds,automaticleaveforleaving,theyfeelathomeisverycomfortable.Accountsforabout10％,

　　Thethirdistheentrepreneurialfantasy"typeyouth,theyhaveastrongentrepreneurialdesire,butnogoalandlackofgain,alwaysdon'tsuccess,butdonotwishagain"sponsor"whenamigrantworkers.Accountsfor20％,

　　Thefourthisfrequentjob-hopping,finallyfindajob,dependparentsfeeds.Accountedfor10％,

　　5istheyoungpeople,theyusedtolaid-offusingpasteasyjobandnownervousbusywork,themorethanmorethandisappointments,simplyleaving,accountsforabout10％,

　　Sixislow,skillispoor,culturalonlyinZhongDiDuanlabormarketfindbitterdirtywork,becauseofthefearofbittertiredfeartiredstraight-temperedstayhome,accountfor30％.

　　HereIwanttoaskis,treatsuchayoungman'sgroup,weshouldtakewhatattitude?Ofcourse,itcan'tbeindifferenttohelpbyhowshouldhelp?

　　Theindividualfeels100goodfilialfirst,humanchildren,weshouldabidebyitsowntraditionalvirtue.Againstchewold,advocatefilialpiety!

　　Lifeislikeastorm,onlywhenyoupassitbaptismrefined,andtofindabrightrainbowissobeautiful.

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