Friendship

　　Makingfriendsisaskilllikemanyotherskills.Itimproveswithpractice.Ifyouwanttomeetpeopleandmakefriends,youmustbewillingtotakesomeactions.Youmustfirstgowheretherearepeople.Youwon’tmakefriendsstayinghomealone.Joinacluboragroup.Takingwiththosewholikethesamethingsasyoudoismucheasier.Orjoinsomeoneinsomeactivities.Manypeoplearenervouswhentalkingtonewpeople.Afterallmeetingstrangersmeansfacingtheunknown.Andit’shumannaturetofeelabituncomfortableabouttheunknown.Mostofourfearsaboutdealingwithnewpeoplecomefromdoubtsaboutourselves.Weimagineotherpeoplearejudgingusoffindingustootallortoshort,toothisortoothat.Butdon’tforgetthattheymustbefeelingthesameway.Trytoacceptyourselfasyouareandtrytoputtheotherpersonatease.You’llbothfeelmorecomfortable.

　　Trytobeself-comfidentevenifyoudon’tfeelthatway.Whenyouenteraroomfullofstrangers,suchasanewclassroom,walktallandstraight,lookdirectlyatotherpeopleandsmile.

　　Ifyouseesomeoneyouliketospeakto,saysomething.don’twaitfortheotherpersontostartaconversation.

　　Justmeetingsomeonenewdoesnotmeanthatyouwillmakefriendswiththatperson-friendshipisbasedonmutuallikingand“giveandtake”.Ittakestimeandefforttodevelop

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　　友谊

　　交友是一种技巧像许多其他方面的技能.它可以改善与实践相结合.如果你想遇到一些人,结交朋友,你必须愿意采取行动.你必须先去那里人.你不会让朋友独自留在家里.加入一个社团或一组.带着那些喜欢你做同样的事情变得容易得多.或者一起在一些活动.许多人都紧张和陌生人说话.毕竟结识陌生人意味着面对未知的领域.和人类的自然感觉有点不舒服的未知.我们的恐惧大部分关于面对新的来怀疑自己.我们想象的是判断我们其他人找到我们太高或短,太这太那个了.但别忘了,他们必须感受到同样的方式.尝试接受原原本本的你,并试著把对方轻松自在.你们两个都会感到更舒服.

　　要self-comfident即使你不这么认为.当你进入一个满屋子的陌生人,比如一个新教室,走挺拔,直接看着别人和微笑.

　　如果你看到你喜欢的人说话,说几句.不要等到别人搭话.

　　刚遇见一个新的人之前并不意味着你会结交person-friendship,是建立在互相喜欢和“给予和索取”.花时间和精力去培养

　　Thereareseveralimportantelementsnecessarytomaintainagoodfriendship要想维持友谊以下几方面是必不可少的了

　　Listen善于倾听

　　Theabilitytoreallylistentoanotherisacornerstoneofgoodfriendship.Ithelpsyoutounderstandyourfriendandhis/herfeelings,aswellasshowsthatyoureallycare.倾听是友谊的基石他有助于你更好的了解你的朋友同时又表示你在关心你的朋友

　　2.Spendqualitytimewithyourfriend与朋友相聚

　　Norelationshipcanbesatisfyingwithoutqualitytimespendtogether.Maketimeforyourfriend,schedulegettogethers.没相聚就没友谊所以抽点时间与朋友一起聚聚吧

　　3.Beforgiving宽容

　　Thereisnotevenonepersonintheworldwhoisperfect.Youknowyourownshortcomings,sodon'texpectperfectionfromothers.I'mnotsayingthatyoushouldalwaysacceptawrongdoingonyourfriend'spart.Tellthemwhenyoudidn'tlikesomethingandbealwaysreadytomakeupafterward.Don'tholdgrudgesinyourheart.Itwillhelpyourfriendtobelong-sufferingwithyouaswell.人无完人,任何人都有自己的缺点所以就不要要求别人完美我并不是叫你一味的纵容朋友的错误相反你应该明确的告诉你的朋友不要藏在心底这对你和你们自己的友谊都是有好处的

　　4.Admityourfaults勇于承认自己的错误

　　Ineveryfriendshiptherewillbeconflictsoonerorlater.Whenitcomes,oftenthewrongisonbothsidesAdmityourwrongsinsteadofjustpointingoutthewrongsofanotherpersoninvolved.Thiswillhelpyoubothtokeepthelineofcommunicationopenandstrengthenyourfriendship

　　朋友相处迟早都会产生冲突的,但产生误会和冲突时双方都是有责任的我认为勇于承认自己的过错比追究责任更有助于解决问题和增进友谊