B[2015•长春市普通高中高三质置检测〗WhenIaskedmymother-in-lawtoselectwhichmealsshe'dlikemetoorderfromthehome-deliverymenusheonlychosetheonesherhusbandwouldlike.Thisgoeswaybeyondpolite
B[2015•长春市普通高中高三质置检测〗
WhenIaskedmymother-in-lawtoselectwhichmealsshe'dlikemetoorderfromthehome-deliverymenusheonlychosetheonesherhusbandwouldlike.Thisgoeswaybeyondpoliteness.Sheisactuallyfeelinguncomfortablevoicingwhatshewants.ShedevelopedthemainsymptomofAsker'sSyn?dromethatone'sunabletoaskforwhatonewants.
It'snotjustolderwomenwhohavethisproblem.Asker'sSyndromecanstriketheyoung.Ihavesinglefriendswhowon'taskamanoutonadatebecausetheyfearbeingconsideredtoo"forward".Myfive-year-olddaughterVioletisshowingtheearlystageofAsker'sSyndrome.She'slearnedthatwomendon'taskbutratherdrophints.She'llsay"RememberlastSundayafternoonwewenttothepark?"ratherthan"Canwegotothepark?"
Apartfromwomenandgirls'problematicrelationshipwithappetitefoodanddatingit'swidelyreportedthatwomenarelesslikelythanmentoaskforpayrisesandpro?motions.Insteadtheywithdrawhopingthatsomebodyelsewilldecidetheyareworthyandmakethempromoted.
NodoubtmanywomendevelopAsker'sSyndromeasadefensivemeasurebecausethey'vebeenlabelledaspushyorrudeforsimplyaskingforwhattheywant.Butinthelongtermchoosingnottoexpressourdesiresdoesn'tserveuswell.
It'stimetocureourselvesandourgirlsofAsker'sSyn?drome.Idon'twanttoraiseafuture"burntchopmother"whodeniesherwishforfoodpowerandsuccessandany?thingelse.Iinsistthatsheaskforwhatshewantsdirectly.
Forwomeninourcultureaskingisaskillthatweneedtolearnandpractise.Andifwealldoit*thenwomenaskingwillbecomethenormratherthantheexception.
5.Theauthor'smother-in-lawismentionedinParagraph1 to_________.
A. introducetheoldlady
B. setanexample
C. talkaboutherillness
D. leadinatopic
6.WhichisTRUEaboutAsker'sSyndromeaccordingtothepassage?
A. Itoftencausesproblemswithappetiteandfood.
B. Olderwomendevelopmoreofitssymptoms.
C. Morewomen