【阅读理解。Gettingyourteentothinkbeyondhisownimmediateneedscanbemoredifficultthancrackinganutwithaplasticfork.Butdon'tworry.It'snotimpossible.Therearemanywaystoencourageyourteentocareaboutthos】
阅读理解。
Gettingyourteentothinkbeyondhisownimmediateneedscanbemoredifficultthancrackinganut
withaplasticfork.Butdon'tworry.It'snotimpossible.Therearemanywaystoencourageyourteento
careaboutthoseoutsidehisimmediatecircleoffriends.Ashebeginstohaveresponsibilitytowardsothers
hewillrealizehefeelsevenbetterabouthimself.
"Teensarethinkingaboutcareercollegeandwhattheirfuturemightlooklike"explainsMichelle
MaidenbergaclinicaldirectorofWestchesterGroupWorksacenterforgrouptreatmentinNewYork.
"Thisisverychallengingandjustoneofthereasonswhytheyaresofocusedontheirownworld."Once
teensparticipateincommunityservicehowevertheybegintolookbeyondtheirpersonalneeds.Theyalso
learnfirsthandaboutthechallengesothersfaceandtheyexperienceasenseofauthorityastheyrealizethey
canmakearealdifferenceinothers'lives.
Notsurehowtoconvinceateentogetawayfromthecellphoneandintoacommunityproject?Teens
buyintocommunityservicewhentheprojectorprogramisinanareaoftheirinterest.
"Findingsomethinginanareaofinterestforthemkeepsthemmotivatedandinspired"Maidenbergsays.
Forinstanceifheisinterestedinculinary(烹饪)schoolhecouldvolunteerinasoupkitchenorbakefora
projectthatsupportsfamiliesinneed.Volunteerprojectsinyourteen'sareaofinterestwillbuildher
knowledgebaseaswellashelpothers.
Parentscandotheirpartbyparticipatingincommunityservicethemselves.Teenscanlearndirectlyfrom
theirparentsthatpersonalenjoymentisnotallthatmatters.
Letteensknowthebenefitstheywillobtain."Givethemeveryreasonintheworldtovolunteer"
Maidenbergadvises.Shesaysthatworkingoncommunityserviceprojectsbuildsconfidence."Byworking
withothersteensimprovemanagerialinterpersonalandcommunicationskills.Communityservicehelpsto
approachmaturitywhentheytakeastepbacktoseetheneedsofotherpeople"sheadds.Anotherreward:
servicehourslookgreatonaresume!
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