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　　Abookcouldbewrittentodescribeallthereasonswhymarriedcouplesgetdivorced.Iwanttohighlightafewofthemajorcomponentsbehindmaritaldivorce.Itisimportantnottobetrickedintothinkingthatcouplesjustwakeuponedayanddecidetodivorceeachother.Mostoften,divorceisjusttheicingonacakethathasbeenintheovenformonths,orevenyears.Thefollowingareafewingredientsinthatcake:

　　LackofCommunicationandDisclosure

　　Youneverheararecentlydivorcedpersonsaythatthereasontheygotadivorcewasbecausetheirspousewasanexcellentcommunicatorwhowastootrustworthy.Often,amarriagethatislargelyhealthycanspiralintoadivorcesimplybecauseeachparticipantrefusestoacknowledgeminorflaws.Themajorityofmarriagesbeginasawonderful,romantic,almostfairy-taleinteractionbetweentwopeople.Thatiswhatisknownasthe"honeymoonphase".Thisphasedoesn'tlastforever.Inamarriage,itisimportantthateachpartnerismatureenoughtoacknowledgethat,eventually,you'regoingtogetannoyedorfrustratedwiththeotherperson.Bydoingso,whenthehoneymoonphasedoesend,andthenormalday-to-dayproblemsofmarriagebegintoreartheiruglyhead,theywon'tcomeassuchasurprise.Coupleswhoarehonestabouttherealityoflifeandrelationshipsaremuchlesslikelytogetadivorce.Lifeisnotlikethelatestchick-flickstarringHughGrant.Besureyourpartnerisawareofthis.

　　SignificantChangesinBodyWeightorAppearance

　　Needlesstosay,physicalattractionisaverysignificantpartofanintimaterelationship.Thereasonmostmarriedcouplesevergottogetherinthefirstplacewaslikelybecausetheywerephysicallyattractedtooneanother.Afterseveralyearsofmarriage,it'snotuncommonforone(orboth)partnerstostoptakingcareoftheirbodyliketheydidwhentheyweresingle.Infidelityisoneoftheleadingcausesofdivorce.Itgoeswithoutbeingsaidthatonemajorcontributortoinfidelityisaspousewhonolongerseemsphysicallyattractive.

　　Children

　　Thedecisiontocreateachildisarguablythemostimportantchoicemanycouplesmake.Itwouldbeeasytofallintoatrapofthinkingthatchildrenarewonderfulandperfectand"agiftfromGod",buttherealityisthatchildrenplaceasignificantburden,inamultitudeofways,onmarriage.Alltoooften,afterthehoneymoonphaseofmarriageends,couplesattempttorekindlethispassionbycreatingchildren.Ironically,itcanoftenhavetheoppositeeffect.Sincechildrenrequiresomuchtimeandmoneytoraiseproperly,marriedcoupleswillsoondiscoverthattheyhardlyhaveanytimetothemselves.Onespousemaybeworkinglongerhourstofoottheadditionalexpensesofachildwhiletheotherisinvestingseveralhoursoftheirdaytoensurethechild'supbringing.Beforeyouknowit,yearsgobyandthecouplerealizesthey'vehardlyspentanytimemaintainingtheirmarriage.

　　Boredom

　　Itsoundssimple,buttherearesomepeopleinthisworldwhoarejustnotmeantfortheinstitutionofmarriage.Thesepeoplewereoftencalled"freespirits"or"adventurers"throughouttheirlives.Often,theyareabletoflipaswitchandexistinamaritalrelationshipwithoutaproblem.Butifonespouseinarelationshipwas"trapped"intothemarriage,don'texpectthemtostickaroundforever.Sometimespeoplesimplygetboredanddecidetomakeachange.Beforemarryin