西方结婚誓言里,那个无论贫穷与富贵的一段话怎么说的?
西方结婚誓言里,那个无论贫穷与富贵的一段话怎么说的?
西方结婚誓言里,那个无论贫穷与富贵的一段话怎么说的?
西方结婚誓言里,那个无论贫穷与富贵的一段话怎么说的?
Minister:
Wearegatheredheretodaytowitnessthecomingtogetheroftwopeople,____________and____________,whoseheartsandspiritsareentwinedasone.Theynowdesiretoprofessbeforealltheworldtheirintentionhenceforthtowalktheroadoflifetogether.
Tothesetwoyoungpeople,thismarriagesignifiesthebirthofanewspirit,aspiritwhichisapartofeachofus,yetnotofanyoneofusalone.This"birthofspirit"remindsusofspring,theseasonwhenalllifeisrebornandloomsagain.Itisappropriate,therefore,thatthisweddingof____________and____________beinthespring,andthatitbeundertheopensky,whereweareclosetotheearthandtotheunityoflife,thetotalityoflivingthingsofwhichwearepart.
ThebeliefsandthoughtsaboutlovewhichmotivatethesetwopeopleareperhapsbestexpressedinthewordsofpoetKahlilGibran:
"Youwereborntobetogether,andtogetheryoushallbeforevermore.
Youshallbetogetherwhenthewingsofdeathscatteryourdays.
Ay,youshallbetogethereveninyoursilentmemory.
Butlettherebespacesinyourtogetherness,
Andletthewindsoftheheavendancebetweenyou.
Loveoneanother,butmakenotabondageoflove.
Letitratherbeamovingseabetweentheshoresofyoursouls.
Filleachother'scup,butdrinknotfromonecup.
Giveoneanotherofyourbread,buteatnotofthesameloaf.
Singanddancetogetherandbejoyous,butleteachofyoubealone,
Evenasthestringsofalutearealone,thoughtheyquiverwiththesamemusic.
Giveyourhearts,butnotintoeachother'skeeping,
Foronlythehandoflifecancontainyourhearts.
Andstandtogether,yetnottooneartogether,
Forthepillarsofthetemplestandapart,
Andtheoaktreeandthecypressgrownotinshadow."
MinistertoBride:
Doyou____________,knowingthisman'sloveforyouandreturningit,realizinghisstrengthsandlearningfromthem,recognizinghisweaknessesandhelpinghimtoovercomethem,take____________tobeyourlawfullyweddedhusband?
Bride:
Ido.
Minister:
Placetheringonhisfinger.
MinistertoGroom:
Doyou____________,knowingthiswoman'sloveforyouandreturningit,realizingherstrengthsandlearningformthem,recognizingherweaknessesandhelpinghertoovercomethem,take____________tobeyourlawfullyweddedwife?
Groom:
Ido.
Minister:
Placetheringonherfinger.Lettheseringsserveaslocks–notbindingyoutogether–butaskeys,unlockingthesecretsofyourheartsforeachothertoknow,andthusbringingyouclosertogetherforever.
Andnow____________and____________,seekingthefulfillmentofloveandmarriage,findagainthatthepoetGibranspeaksforthem:
"Lovehasnootherdesirebuttofulfillitself.
Towakeatdawnwithawingedheartandgivethankstoanotherdayofloving.
Torestatthenoonhourandmeditatelove'secstasy;
Toreturnhomeeventidewithgratitude,andthensleepwithaprayer
Forthebelovedinyourheartandasongofpraiseuponyourlips."
Inowpronounceyouhusbandandwife.