【英语翻译Themarriedpeoplearguemostoverissueslikewhoisgoingtobeincontrol.WhenIwasyounger,myneedtocontrolaroseoutoffear,alackoftrustandinsecurity.FinallyIrealizedIdidn'tneedtocontrolmywife-that,indeed,Iought】

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　　Themarriedpeoplearguemostoverissueslikewhoisgoingtobeincontrol.WhenIwasyounger,myneedtocontrolaroseoutoffear,alackoftrustandinsecurity.FinallyIrealizedIdidn'tneedtocontrolmywife-that,indeed,Ioughtnottocontrolher,thatIcouldn'tcontrolher,andthatifItried,Iwoulddestroyourmarriage.Givingupcontrolisoftenconfusedwithweakness.Butthewinnerinahomeargumentisneverreallythewinner.Whenyouwinabattleandyourpartnersubmits,youhaveactuallylost._uk15Bp5*u

　　Whatdowewantmostfromamarriage?Toloveandbeloved.Tobehappyandsecure.Togrow,todiscover.Aloverelationshipisthegarden,inwhichweplant,cultivateandharvestthemostvaluablecrop,ourownself;andinwhichourspouseisprovidedwiththesamerichsoilinwhichtobloom.Wecannotobtainwhatwewantunlessourpartneralsogetswhatheorshewants.Awomanmay,forexample,wanttogotothecinema.Herhusbandmightdislikethefilm.Butspendingafewhourswithhiswifecanbringjoytohiswife.That'saverysmallpricetopayforjoy,isn'tit?