Whenthesurveycarriedoutbasedonthequestion"

　　who

　　doyoutalktowhenyouhaveaproblem?whythisperson?"cametothevolunteers,theygiveseparatefeedbacks.Somewentlike:

　　1---ItdependsontheproblemastowhoIwouldtalkto.Somepeopleare

　　bettersuitedathelpingmewithparticularareas,othersarenot,so

　　it'sbesttoeitherfindthe"specialist"inthatareaortoaskseveral

　　peoplefortheiradvice/helpinordertogetthebestperspective.

　　My

　　husbandanddaughterwouldbethetwothatItalktomostoftenabouta

　　problem,buttherearesomeotherthingsthatImightneedhelpwith

　　thatIwouldn'tevenconsideraskingthemabout.Itreallyjustdepends

　　onwhatitisandwhetherIthinktheywouldunderstandthesituation

　　wellenoughtobeofrealassistance.Iofcoursetrustthemtobring

　　tothemmostofmyproblems.Trustisproblemthenumberonereasonwhy

　　Iwouldgotothem.

　　Sometime,Ijusttrytoworkproblemsout

　　onmyown.Inmanycases,that'sallthat'sneeded.Itakesometimeto

　　considerallsidesofthesituation,andwithsomeluckthesolution

　　willappeartome.

　　2---Usuallymywife,ItrustherwiththeinformationandIknowshewill

　　tellmethetruth

　　3---Italldependsonwhoyouarecomfortabletalkingtoandwhoyoufeel

　　safetalkingto.Atrustedtherapistisalwaysagoodideaasyoucan

　　talktotheminconfidenceandyoucantellthemanything.Ifyouhavea

　　parent,grandparent,friendorsiblingthatyoucantrulytrustyou

　　couldtalktothemtoo.Butfeelingsafeiskey.

　　4---

　　Startwithateacheryoutrustorgotoacounseloratyour

　　school.Theytalktokidseverydayandknowwhattosayandhowto

　　handleproblems.

　　Otherpeoplewhocanhelp?Trygrandparents,aunts,uncles,

　　evenneighborsifyouareclosetothem.Youcantalktoacoach,scout

　　leader,orsomeoneatchurchaboutyourproblem.

　　字数有些多,你自己摘一些出来就可以