Weallknowthatmoneycan'tmakeushappy,butmanytimesweactasifwe'dbehappierwithabitmoremoney.Wearetrainedtowanttobericher;wearetrainedtowantthelateststylethattelevisiontellsus;wewanttoearnmoremoneybec
Weallknowthatmoneycan'tmakeushappy,butmanytimesweactasifwe'dbehappierwithabitmoremoney.Wearetrainedtowanttobericher; wearetrainedtowantthelateststylethattelevisiontellsus; wewanttoearnmoremoneybecausethenwe'llhaveagoodlife.
Butnoneofthatwillmakeushappier.Andthesadthingisthatitcantakeusdecadesofpursuing (追求) wealthandexpensivethingsbeforewerealizethat.Sowhatwillbringushappiness?Luckily,therearethreethingsthatdon'tcostanything.Heretheyare:
Goodrelationships.Wehaveahumanneedtobeclosewithotherhumanbeings.Havinggood,supportivefriendships,astrongmarriageorlovingrelationshipswithourfamilymemberswillmakeusmuchmorelikelytobehappy.Therefore,taketime,today,tostaywithyourlovedones,totellthemwhattheymeantoyou,tolistentothem,andtodevelopyourrelationshipswiththem.
Positivethinking.Optimism(乐观) isoneofthebestindicatorsofpeoplewholeadahappylife.Happypeoplelikethefeelofcontrolingtheirlives.Sowhynotmakepositivethinkingahabit?Infact,thisshouldbeoneofthefirsthabitsyoudevelop.
Flow.ThisisapopularconceptontheInternetthesedays 一 thestateweenterwhenwearecompletelyfocusedontheworkortask.Havingworkandleisure(休闲)thatgetsyouinthisstateofflowwillalmostundoubtedlyleadtohappiness.Peoplefindthegreatestenjoymentnotwhenthey'redoingacompletelymindlesstask,butwhenthey'reinterestedinamindfulchallenge.
Ifyouareinterestedinsomekindofworkandfondofsomekindofhobbies,itisnotabadidea.TurnofftheTV 一 thisistheoppositeofflow 一 andthengooutsideanddosomethingthattrulymakesyouactive.
49.Togetonwellwithourfamilymembers,wecan___.
A.makemoremoneyforthem
B.buyexpensivethingsforthem
C.staywiththemandcommunicatewiththem
D.tellthemeverythingthathappenstousinourdailylife
50.Accordingtothepassage,thefirsthabitweshoulddevelopis___.
A.tohaveagoodhobby
B.todothingscarefully
C.tomakepositivethinkingahabit
D.tolistentoyourfamilymemberspatiently
51.Ifwewanttobehappy,weshould___.