Asmiletotheir

　　Stillrememberlastyear,the"high-endaccess,"isaninterviewwithBillGates,mostofwhathecannotforgettheexperienceofsuccess,hesaidthisquote:"Iamsuccessfulisbecauseallofthemimmersedinthefailureofthepain,Ihavealreadystartedanewdesign.Whenallofthemenjoythejoyofsuccess,Ihavealreadyfailedattempts.AsaChinesesaying:'victoryisnotarrogance,failureisnothungry',Ivictoryandthelikewillnotbeknockeddown,butalsoafailureandregretwillnotbedestroyed,thereismorethanjustasmile."

　　Thiscanbedescribedasclassic.Reallife,BillGatesistodoso,whenallofMicrosoft'ssoftwareviruseswasalmostnothingleft,thedangerofbeingbroken,helaughedandhadthefaceofthevirus,threedaysafterBillGatesdevelopedbythenewgenerationofantivirussoftwaretosaveeverything.InthelatestMicrosoftSystemwindows-xpsuccessfullydeveloped,theBillGateseasilysmiled,thebeginningofanothersystem.

　　Theworld'srichestmanandthedifferencebetweenordinarypeopleismorethanthefaceofhisheartsmile.

　　Laughterisalsoapessimistandtheoptimist'sahugedifference.Edison'sfilamentintheelectionmaterialsoexperiencedthefailureofthousandsoftimes.Aftereachfailure,hisaidesareannoyedlook,andEdisonissaidwithasmile:"Whatistroubling,thefailureofthefirst,itprovesthatweruleoutthepossibilityofawronganswer,astepawayfromthesuccessofthepast!"

　　Donotlookdownonyou,theysmile,asmiletothecontemptofthedifficultiesyoucourage,asmilewillchangeyourlife.Whenthelifeofthemountainlikeahugepressureonyou,giveyoustrengthandself-confidentsmileis.

　　Infact,notdifficulttosmile,bendmouth,andthatislaughter.Butthedifficultyisalaughfromtheheart.Inthefaceofsetbacksandunfortunatedaysmustlaughinacalm;inaverymelancholymoodoftheday,smilinginanumberofself-confidenceshouldincrease,nottobeunderstoodinthedaystocomebymisunderstanding,weshouldaddatraceoflaughterindebauchery.Laughterisnotdifficult,itisdifficulttograspthescalelaughing.

　　Donotcomplainaboutlifetoomuchtoitsownsuffering,toomanytwistsandturns,andtoomuchpaintohimselfasmile!Letyouinacalmandlessformal;increasethenumberofhappy,lesssad;plussomeself-confidence,byatraceofinferiority.

　　Nottoomuchtofacetheirown,donotbetooindulgent,nottobetoomean,andthehandsshouldbeholdingthebalanceoflife,tofindtheirownbenchmarksmile.

　　Afterall,itisnothardtosmile.

　　给自己一个微笑

　　还记得去年看《高端访问》,采访的是比尔·盖茨,最令人不能忘记的就是他成功的经验,他说过这样一段话：“我成功是因为当所有的人都沉浸在失败的痛楚中,我却早已开始了新的设计.当所有的人都享受在成功的喜悦中,我却早已尝试着失败.中国有句名言：‘胜不骄,败不馁’,我之所以不被胜利和喜欢击倒,也不会被失败和懊恼摧残,这里面只是一个微笑而已.”

　　这段话可称为经典.现实生活中比尔·盖茨也是这样做的,当微软的全部软件几乎被病毒侵害得所剩无几,危在旦夕时,他面对着病毒一笑而过,三天之后由比尔·盖茨研制成的新一代杀毒软件拯救了一切.而在微软的最新系统windows-xp研制成功后,比尔·盖茨轻松地笑笑,开始了又一个系统的研制.

　　世界首富和常人不同之处,是脸上多了份发自内心的微笑.

　　笑也是悲观者与乐观者的一个巨大区别.爱迪生在选做灯丝的材料时,经历了上千次失败.每一次失败后,他的助手都神情懊恼,而爱迪生却笑着说：“有什么令人烦恼的,失败一次,就证明我们排除了一个错误答案,离成功近了一步!”

　　你千万别小看这些微笑,微笑给你蔑视困难的勇气,微笑会改变你的一生.当生活像一座巨大的山压在你身上,给你力量和自信的就是微笑.

　　其实笑并不难,嘴角上翘,那就是笑.但难的是一种发自内心的笑.在面临种种挫折和不幸的日子里,笑里必须多一份坦然；在心情极为忧郁的日子里,笑里应该增加一些自信,在不被理解受误解的日子里,笑里就要加一丝放荡.笑不难,难的是把握笑的标尺.

　　不要抱怨生活给了自己太多的磨难、太多的曲折和太多的痛苦,给自己一份