howtogainrespectfromothers写一篇有关如何获得别人尊重的英语作文
howtogainrespectfromothers
写一篇有关如何获得别人尊重的英语作文
howtogainrespectfromothers写一篇有关如何获得别人尊重的英语作文
howtogainrespectfromothers
写一篇有关如何获得别人尊重的英语作文
Actually,
Haven'tyounoticedthatit'susuallythepeoplewhodon'tcareaboutrespectthatgetitthemost?
It'skindoflikeauthority,ifyoutrytoforceitoneveryone,nobodyreallyrespectsyourauthority,butifyou'redoingthingswithoutintent,theneverybodyseemstorespectyou.
That'showI'venoticedinmylifeatleast.Lifeexperience.
Wewantrespect,becausewewanttofeelsafe.Thatnobodywillhurtusordisrespectourego...etcetc.Butthat'sthewrongwaytogoaboutit.Tryingtogetrespectinordertofeelsafeiskindofbackwards.PeoplerespectyoubecauseYOUmakethemsafe.Nottheotherwayaround.
I'mnottryingto..."lecture"youonthis.BecauseIknowmyselfasateacher,authorityandrespectarethingsyouneedinyourjob.Andwhenyoudon'thavethemthereisalotoffrustration.
I'vetriedtoforcebothconceptsonpeopleanditjustdidn'twork.WHenIfinallystoppedcaring,that'swhenitseemstofallintoplace.