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　　【Somechildrenarenatural-bornbosses.Theyhaveastrongneedtomakedecisionsmanagetheirenvironmentandleadratherthanfollow.StephenJacksonaYearOnestudent“operatesunderthetheoryofwhat’smineismineandwhat’sy】

　　Somechildrenarenatural-bornbosses.Theyhaveastrongneedtomakedecisionsmanagetheirenvironmentandleadratherthanfollow.StephenJacksonaYearOnestudent“operatesunderthetheoryofwhat’smineismineandwhat’syoursismine”sayshismother.“TheotherdayIboughttwonewStarWarslightsabers(剑).LaterIsawStephenwiththetwonewoneswhilehisbrotherwasusingthebeat-upones.”

　　“Examinetheextendedfamilyandyou’llprobablyfindabossygrandparentauntuncleorcousinineverygeneration.It’saninheritabletrait”saysRussellBarkleyaprofessorattheMedicalUniversityofSouthCarolina.Otherchildrenwhomaynotbeparticularlybossycangraduallygaindominance（支配地位）whentheysensetheirparentsareweakhesitantorindisagreementwitheachother.

　　Whetherit’sinbornnatureordevelopedcharacteratworktoomuchcontrolinthehandsoftheyoungisn’thealthyforchildrenorthefamily.FearisattherootofalotofbossybehaviorsaysfamilypsychologistJohnTaylor.ChildrenhesaysinhisbookFromDefiancetoCooperation“havesecretfeelingsofweakness”and“adesiretofeelsafe.”It’stheparents’roletoprovidethatprotection.

　　Whena“bosschild”doesn’tlearnlimitsathomethestageissetforahostoftroublesoutsidethefamily.Theoverlywillfulandunbendingchildmayhavetroubleobeyingteachersorcoachesforexampleortroublekeepingfriends.Itcanbeprettylonelyasthetopdogifnoonelikesyourbossyways.

　　“Iseemoreandmoreparentsgivinguptheirpower”saysBarkleywhohasstudiedbossybehaviorformorethan30years.“Theybendtoofarbecausetheydon’twanttobeasstrictastheirownparentswere.Buttheyalsofeellessconfidentabouttheirparentingskills.Theirkidsinturnfeelmoreanxious.”

　　1.BossychildrenlikeStephenJackson.

　　A.makegooddecisions

　　B.showself-centeredness

　　C.lackcarefromothers

　　D.havelittlesenseoffear

　　2..Thestudyonbossybehaviorimpliesthatparents.

　　A.shouldgivemorepowertotheirchildren

　　B.shouldbestrictwiththeirchildren

　　C.shouldnotbesoanxiousabouttheirchildren

　　D.shouldnotsetlimitsfortheirchildren

　　3.Bossychildrenmayprobablybecome.

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2020-06-23 01:38

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　　1.B

　　2.B

　　3.D

　　4.C

　　分析：

　　文章主要讲述了究竟是什么导致了孩子bossy的行为，原来的父母对他们的放纵，对他们的要求不够严格，导致他们缺乏安全感。

　　631.根据第一段第二句：Theyhaveastrongneedtomakedecisionsmanagetheirenvironmentandleadratherthanfollow.后面又举了Jackson的例子StephenJacksonaYearOnestudent“operatesunderthetheoryofwhat’smineismineandwhat’syoursismine说明Jackson的特征以自我为中心，

　　所以B正确

　　2.推理判断题。根据最后一段中Theybendtoofarbecausetheydon’twanttobeasstrictastheirownparentswere说明他认为父母应该对孩子更严格，因为父母对孩子宽松让孩子感觉没有安全感，会很焦虑。故B正确。

　　3.推理判断题。根据第四段最后一句Itcanbeprettylonelyasthetopdogifnoonelikesyourbossyways.如果没有人喜欢你的霸道方式，作为一个顶级狗也会很孤独可以知道bossychildren会感到孤独，所以D正确

　　4.主旨大意题。通读全文可以知道文章首先讲述了孩子们的专横的行为，然后分析了形成这种行为的原因：遗传因素和父母的教育，所以C什么导致了孩子们的霸道行为正确。

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2020-06-23 01:41:41

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